Toilet Training

Riddhi*, 5, lives in a house with a detached bathroom without a commode. Her communication difficulties prevented her from indicating when she needed to pee so she’d do it in her pants wherever she was or when taken to the toilet by a parent. She also had constipation, pooping every four days or so. 

Here’s how her sessions progressed:

Session 1: Understanding toileting

In which we advised that her parents to:

  • Address the constipation with a stool softener a fibre- rich diet.
  • Make a record of every time she was taken to the toilet or peed/ pooped elsewhere.
  • Take her to the washroom and encourage her to sit at least with a fun activity to improve her  tolerance for sitting on the commode.
  • Use Social Stories to help Riddhi  understand what to do.

Session 2: Materials and schedule for trip-training

Two weeks later, we used the record to recommend that Riddi be taken to the washroom every two hours, with a potty seat, visual cards of the washroom, chocolate and the words, “Riddhi, susu time!”. 

Session 3: Trip-training plan

At the third session, we shared a two-week urination trip-training plan. A week later, Riddhi was sitting to pee and poop on her own in the washroom. At the follow-up two months later, her father reported that she was going to the washroom on her own and would sometimes say “susu ” or “toilet” (for pooping). The parents have no other concerns with toileting at the moment.

Strategies that worked

Riddhi’s successful  two-month toilet training incorporated some simple but effective strategies:

  • Inculcating the habit: Taking Riddhi to the washroom and making her sit for some time accustomed her to sit on the commode to pee and poop.
  • Using Social Stories: Autistic children are often visual learners. As  pictorial media, Social Stories and visual cards helped Riddhi understand that a washroom is where we sit down to pee and poop. 
  • Easing the constipation: Stool softener and a high-fibre diet helped Riddhi poop every day. 

Modelling language: Consistently using specific words – “susu”, “toilet” – helped Riddhi associate them with the act.