Author: Shahan Naik | August 30th 2022
Why is using the correct communication such an important part of toilet training?
Communication plays an important role in toilet training for ALL children.
Considering all of us go to the toilet we all seem to suffer from the inability to talk openly and unashamedly about going to the loo with our children. Too often inappropriate messages are given to children from a young age telling them that it is dirty or that they need to be a ‘big girl or boy’. No one is born ‘potty trained’ it is a skill we learn – some quicker than others. Talking openly and kindly about using the pot in an agreed manner for the household and remembering the hygiene around it will make this more pleasant and less stressful.
If a child is nonverbal we need to use visuals to help communicate their need for the toilet. If a child has limited speech we need to model to them what it is that they should say, so rather than, “Mama I need to pee’, just encourage ‘pee’ or simply ‘toilet’.
Because some children with ASD have difficulty communicating their needs these communication tools are vital – this is especially important at school or at the creche for them to be able to express their needs. If they are in public spaces or at a friend’s house they need to be equipped to be able to communicate their need.
At home, in their comfort zone, it is easier for children to go to the washroom and pass urine by themselves. Parents and caregivers can read facial or body gestures indicating that their child needs to go to the toilet, so they can quickly assist or guide them. It is important to be aware when the child is not in their primary environment they will behave differently.
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